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mama2m
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Had to kick him out
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He was stealing my credit card and disregarding every rule we had. I wasn't sleeping, in an agony all the time about what he's becoming and what he was going to do next. I'm absolutely horrified by what he is becoming. It's far worse than if he had died.
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Hi mm2m
I hear your pain and I'm so sorry you're going through this. Im dealing with my own situation at the moment but didn't want to leave your post without touching in with you.
Try and stay strong and keep in the current moment. Fortune telling is just wasted energy.
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Quote from: Lollypop on September 19, 2016, 07:49:54 AM
Hi mm2m
I hear your pain and I'm so sorry you're going through this. Im dealing with my own situation at the moment but didn't want to leave your post without touching in with you.
Try and stay strong and keep in the current moment. Fortune telling is just wasted energy.
Bug hugs
Thanks so much for responding! Sorry it took so long for me to get back here. I had given up on getting a response. But what can anyone really say? It is what it is. Things have been much more tranquil since he left. I hope it motivates him to seek help eventually.
So sorry you've been going through some things too. I hope you're doing alright!
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Hi Mama2m
I saw your response to Lollypop in your LP quote. I'm very sorry for what you are dealing with and hope the calm and space allows you some rest bite.
My daughter was motivated to want to recover when the pain became intolerable, it was her choice. It can get better.
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