Hi Ellibear2,
Your first post can be found here and there are a few replies-
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=3062167.msg13234199#msg13234199If you received any personal messages, look up above this thread at the light green bar. It's just above the Bing search box and you'll see "Help!", "Boards", "Search Threads", "Search Members", and the 5th option is "Pvt Mail".
Click on "Pvt Mail" and you can read your personal messages there.
Just let us know if you need any additional help! You should be able to post freely.