Hi Coachers,
I'm sorry to hear about your wife's behavior. Arguing and fielding put downs from someone you love is difficult and very discouraging.
You've found a great place for support. There are members here who understand what you are going through. And the site has tons of tools and resources that can make things better. There really is hope.
How long have you been married? Do you have a good support system around you—friends, family, a counselor?
Keep posting, and let us know how we can best support you. That's what we're here for.
heartandwhole