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Stromtrooper
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« on: July 04, 2017, 07:58:57 PM »

We are currently separated. I feel like this is best but I'm so tired of being tortured about it.
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« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2017, 07:24:33 AM »


Welcome

I'm glad you have found us.  We understand what it is like to be tortured over relationship issues.     

We can help you sort through this.

Can you give us some details on what happens/is said that leaves you feeling tortured?

Hang in there... .!

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« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2017, 02:15:50 PM »

I'm also currently separated from my wife. She came to me and said she was 'done', no explanation, no conversation or qualifiers. I was so exhausted and emotionally drained I just went along with it.

It was absolutely not what I wanted, neither is it still. But her actions since the split seem to suggest this is indeed final.

Conflicted doesn't begin to cover it.
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