Anyone tried the Zero to Ten Question?

[Parents! Get help here!]

Hi  

I came across the Zero to Ten Question and it struck me as something worth adding to my communicating and understanding skills, you may find it helpful.  

It's from eqi.org I found the link while reading workshop Topic 1.11 Validation - Stop invalidating others  

"Often in society we ask yes or no questions. Many times it would be more helpful to ask these questions in the form of 0-10 questions. We might say asking questions in this way is also more emotionally intelligent, because it gives us more emotional data." There are some useful real life examples showing how it made a difference.

Here is the link Understanding: Zero to Ten

I can recall many past conversations with my daughter where I could have used it, can you?

I'm going to use it this week  

WDx

[wendydarling]

Hi  

I came across the Zero to Ten Question and it struck me as something worth adding to my communicating and understanding skills, you may find it helpful.  

It's from eqi.org I found the link while reading workshop Topic 1.11 Validation - Stop invalidating others  

"Often in society we ask yes or no questions. Many times it would be more helpful to ask these questions in the form of 0-10 questions. We might say asking questions in this way is also more emotionally intelligent, because it gives us more emotional data." There are some useful real life examples showing how it made a difference.

Here is the link Understanding: Zero to Ten

I can recall many past conversations with my daughter where I could have used it, can you?

I'm going to use it this week  

WDx

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[incadove]

Thanks, wendydarling - I really like this.  I think I usually don't understand that well!