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Hi, My daughter attempted suicide this month and is OK physically; however, struggling emotionally. Her diagnosis was just changed from severe depression and anxiety to borderline personality disorder. She is in an outpatient center now and we are considering expanding her treatment to intensive outpatient. I am reading as much as I can now about BPD and hoping to find some online support for her and our family. We are located in Palm Beach County Florida. Any information on support opportunities that are know and trusted are appreciated. I hope to become active in this group as we navigate this next chapter.
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Welcome to bpdfamily.
I'm sorry what brings you here and glad to hear your daughter is ok physically and I understand when you say she's struggling emotionally, as I was in a very similar devastating situation to you 3 years ago when I joined as are many parents here, you are not alone on this path, next chapter, as parents we are here to support you.
I'm glad you've reached out for support and learning here with us, the resources are world class. How old is your daughter and what behaviours have you been dealing with in addition to depression and anxiety that is more than often also present.
How old is your daughter momofBPDgirl? What kind of online support are you thinking of for your daughter, in addition to treatment?
WDx
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Hello momofBPDgirl
I would like to join
wendydarling
in welcoming you here.
I’m so sorry to hear of your daughter’s recent suicide attempt, that must have been a terrible time for you.
You will find lots of resources here and of course help and support, we all understand what you are going through
I’m sorry that I can’t help you find any local support where you live but I just wanted to drop by and welcome you anyway, and to say that I look forward to hearing more from you x
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Welcome to the Family. I'm new too. Sorry for the reason you're here but glad you found us.
Quote from: momofBPDgirl on October 01, 2018, 10:40:17 AM
Any information on support opportunities that are know and trusted are appreciated. I hope to become active in this group as we navigate this next chapter.
I trust this site. I don't have any answers for you, I just wanted to welcome you here and tell you, from my experience, you are in very capable, compassionate, understanding, and supportive company.
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Quote from: Only Human on October 02, 2018, 02:25:21 AM
Welcome to the Family. I'm new too. Sorry for the reason you're here but glad you found us.
I trust this site. I don't have any answers for you, I just wanted to welcome you here and tell you, from my experience, you are in very capable, compassionate, understanding, and supportive company.
OH, thank you for reaching out to new members, passing on, it means so much. I could have written what you say above 3 years ago, so very grateful to be here as you are.
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Welcome momofBPDgirl,
I am new to this site but it is a wonderful source of support. 14 years ago my husband and I attended a 2 day BPD Family Connection conference and it was amazing.It was very helpful to learn communication techniques and inform ourselves.Hang in there.
Prayers,
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