The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

I couldn't wait to be able to say this...

Today I was walking along the canal and realized that I don't think of my exUBPDbf as much as I used to.  I said to myself "finally"!   

This thought was worth a post. 

Amen

[Tsultan]

I couldn't wait to be able to say this...

Today I was walking along the canal and realized that I don't think of my exUBPDbf as much as I used to.  I said to myself "finally"!   

This thought was worth a post. 

Amen

[I Am Redeemed]

Hi Tsultan, and congrats on reaching this point 

I remember when my wedding anniversary came this past year, and I didn't even realize what day it was for three whole hours after I woke up  That was worth a post to me because it felt huge.

It's definitely a confidence-booster when you realize that there actually is some progress being made! I hope it gets even better for you from here 

[Lucky Jim]

Great news, Tsultan!  Keep up the good work.  I'm here to confirm that it's possible to find greater happiness in the aftermath of a BPD r/s.  That's what it's all about, right?

LJ

[Tsultan]

Lucky Jim, Yes! Greater happiness - I like that. That is what it's all about.  And I have it finally again. 

I'm doing okay.  Starting to feel good again.

Thanks for responding.   

[Tsultan]

Thank you I am redeemed!  That must have been a great feeling!  I think I remember reading your post that day.  

Yes confidence booster is a great way to put it.  Finally making progress!  

 

[Ecan]

                  
Tsultan
I want to add to the congratulations!
I am happy for you!
I hope you keep having more  times to say FINALLY!

[Tsultan]

Ecan,  Thank you!