Daughter - I feel like a prisoner in my own home.

[Liza#82]

My 60 year old daughter is home for the holidays. She has had this problem since childhood. I have set boundaries which she violates.  I leave the conversation before it escalates.  Her son is home as well, and she has engaged him in a drama that he left my home to say with his father. My daughter is divorced from his father.  I feel like a prisoner in my own home.  False accusations---and constant badgering.  

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Swimmy55]

Welcome, Liza,
Yes, we truly understand the badgering . It is frustrating.  Here is a link from the tools drop down list at the top of the page for you to read.  
https://bpdfamily.com/content/ending-conflict
This may help.  Are there any other ways you can perform self care for you while she is visiting?