BPD daughter better, family much worse

[Tazzer4000]

Hi All,

It's been a long time since I attempted to post here. I was struggling with a deep depression over several recent losses. Just as I was getting me feet under me, the holidays rolled around. Right before Christmas my husband was diagnosed with renal cancer.  And a few days ago we lost a multi year struggle over wrongful foreclosure which may well end with us homeless.  At this point, I'm glad our BPD/d is still in the juvenile program because I do not think she would handle all this stress well if she was here. I had been waiting to give a check in until something more positive happened  but as things keep going from bad to worse I thought I should post now. I appreciate all the kindness you all have shown me. I will try to check in again soon.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[wendydarling]

Hi Tazzer

Along with others I have been thinking of you. I'm glad you posted and so very sorry to hear your husband's recent diagnosis. You may end up homeless, I hope it does not come to this. Tazzer we are a support group, lean on us, we're listening, we're here for you always. You are right your DD is in the best place, in the safety of the program for now, is some comfort.

Check in when you can.

Sending you hugs 

WDx