new to the group, late to the party

[Roseglow]

Hi Friends,
Just joined this group. Where have you been for the last 31 years? My daughter has BP and I can't even talk to her about it without a rage attack.
I know many of you have felt the same way, but I have done everything in my power to help this girl and she always blames, yells, cries screams ad threatens me.
I have read several books on this subject, but really feel I need the support of others who get it. 

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Harri]

Hi and welcome!

We do get it here.  There are many parents who have experienced similar so you definitely are not alone any more.

Can you tell us more about your daughter?  what are some of the behaviors you see that indicate BPD?  what sort of things have you tried when dealing with the behavior?  Sorry for all the questions, it helps to get a better picture of what you are dealing with.  Not just with your daughter, but how you are coping as well.  So when you can, share more with us.  We all work together to help each other cope and we support each other.  things can get better for us.

Again,