Abuse as an argument for financial consideration in divorce

[Scared2Lose]

I've been married to my soon to be wife for a little over two years, we've been together for three. I've made financial decisions based on what she now says was her not in her right mind (she says one of the reasons she wants a divorce is that she wasn't in her right mind when she made the commitment). That being said the stress and trauma of dealing with her, not having my needs met at all, and trying to help her through what I'm still sure is a horrendous experience caused me to lose jobs, I sold my house to move to a town she wanted to live, and I'm still working through the feelings of loss and shame and embarrassment. I'm pretty sure I'm experiencing some light PTSD from the whole thing. I'm wondering if that has come up for anyone as a valid argument for financial consideration in a divorce.