I moved away from adult child

[SeniorMom]

5 years ago I left town. Left a narcissistic husband of 34 years and a BPD daughter that was 30yo, single mother of 2 children then 10 and 11.  I have given much emotional and financial support over the years. I still do nothing right. I left because I was not respected by any party there. I live alone now and I am very happy. But I often get rages from daughter about my abandoning her. 

I'm open to any assistance. I have bought and working with the 3 books. I don't need the divorce book. I have no communication with spouse. Thanks

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[pursuingJoy]

I admire your courage and can imagine the emotional toll all of this has taken. What part of this are you working through now? What can we help with?