new to this site, concerned about my adult daughter

[kayhorton]

strained relationship with adult daughter.  Concerned she may be a "quiet borderline"  She has 3 young children who I am also concerned about.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[kells76]

Hey, welcome -- glad you found the group.

That sounds heartbreaking to have your D's behaviors impact your relationship with her and then both of your relationships with the kids.

How old are your grandkids? How does it go when you spend time with them?

Whenever you feel ready, tell us more about what you've observed, as you're worried she's a "quiet borderline" -- behaviors? statements? issues?

-kells76