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Saying "I need help" is a huge first step. Here is what to do next.
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IHaveGotThis
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Child
Relationship status: (Note our 'child' is 22) I'm married. Our bpd daughter lives on her own.
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« on: February 18, 2022, 05:30:33 AM »

Welcome new member (click to insert in post) I'm taking the first step. I have an adult child with BPD, and I have been slowly driving myself crazy being pulled into her drama. After a week of suicide attempts, and her trying to be admitted to the hospital, she was sent home only for the drama to begin again. I have been trying to do this on my own, but I know I can't. What I've created is a co-dependent relationship that's seriously affecting my own mental health now too.
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
Swimmy55
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Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Child
Relationship status: Estranged
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« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2022, 08:24:35 AM »

Congrats and welcome!   Thanks for making us a part of your network.  You are correct in that you are just as important as your BPD child.  As you are able, can you please tell us a little more- is your child a minor or an adult?  We are here for you.
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