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Question: On which cluster of traits did you score highest?
Paranoid - 54 (6%)
Schizoid - 89 (9.9%)
Schizotypal - 77 (8.6%)
Antisocial - 46 (5.1%)
Borderline - 44 (4.9%)
Histrionic - 41 (4.6%)
Narcissitic - 99 (11%)
Avoidant - 104 (11.6%)
Dependent - 67 (7.5%)
Obsessive- Compulsive - 124 (13.8%)
I did not score 55 or higher in any category - 152 (16.9%)
Total Voters: 536

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« Reply #210 on: September 09, 2015, 12:45:39 AM »

Huh... .not sure how I feel about this test  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Paranoid   ||||||||||||||             56%   50%

Schizoid   ||||||||||||                     43%   40%

Schizotypal ||||||||||||||||||||     83%   56%

Antisocial   ||||||||||||||||||           72%   46%

Borderline   ||||||||||||||||             70%   45%

Histrionic   ||||||||||||||||||             80%   52%

Narcissistic   ||||||||||||||||||||     81%   40%

Avoidant   ||||||||||||                     49%   48%

Dependent   ||||||||||||||             52%   44%

Obsessive-Compulsive |||||||||||| 49%   45%
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« Reply #211 on: September 09, 2015, 01:30:59 PM »

LOL, gameover... .me neither... .

Paranoid   ||||||||||   40%   50%

Schizoid   ||||||||||   36%   40%

Schizotypal   ||||||||||   40%   56%

Antisocial   ||||||||||    50%   46%

Borderline   |||||||||||   46%   45%

Histrionic   |||||||||   50%   52%

Narcissistic   ||||||||||||   49%   40%

Avoidant   ||||||||||   39%   48%

Dependent   ||||||||||||   42%   44%

Obsessive-Compulsive  38%   45%
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« Reply #212 on: September 09, 2015, 02:22:55 PM »

Paranoid |||||||||||||| 55%

Schizoid |||||||||||||||| 61% 

Schizotypal |||||||||||||||| 70%

Antisocial |||||||||||||| 54%

Borderline |||||||||||||| 54% 

Histrionic |||||||||||||| 53%

Narcissistic |||||||||||||| 60% 

Avoidant |||||||||||| 50% 

Dependent |||||||||||| 50% 

Obsessive-Compulsive |||||||||||||||| 65% 

Good lord--I don't even know what to say... .

now I'm totally paranoid and crawling away to find a rock.
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« Reply #213 on: September 09, 2015, 05:48:24 PM »



Paranoid   ||||||||||||||||   70%   50%

Schizoid   ||||||||||||||||   64%   40%

Schizotypal   ||||||||||||||||||   71%   56%

Antisocial   ||||||||||||||   58%   46%

Borderline   ||||||||||||||||   64%   45%

Histrionic   ||||||||||||   50%   52%

Narcissistic   ||||||||||||   43%   40%

Avoidant   ||||||||||||||||||   79%   48%

Dependent   ||||||||||||||||   70%   44%

Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||||||||   46%   45%

Damn, this test seems a bit alarmist. I can see the dependant aspect though.
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« Reply #214 on: December 10, 2015, 12:52:12 PM »

Interesting.

#1: Schizotypal Personality Disorder - individual is uncomfortable in close relationships, has thought or perceptual distortions, and peculiarities of behavior; preoccupied with seeing themselves and/or the world as strange/odd.

Close second: Antisocial Personality Disorder - individual shows a pervasive disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others; Preoccupied with disdain/contempt for others and often a need for control/power over others.

Paranoid   ||||||||||||                   45%   50%

Schizoid   ||||||||||||                   50%   40%

Schizotypal   |||||||||||||    57%   56%

Antisocial   |||||||||||||    54%   46%

Borderline   ||||||||||||                   47%   45%

Histrionic   ||||||||||||                   41%   52%

Narcissistic   ||||||||||||                   48%   40%

Avoidant   ||||||||||||                   44%   48%

Dependent   ||||||||||||                   43%   44%

Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||||||||   47%   45%

*scores in gray are the average web score
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« Reply #215 on: December 12, 2015, 09:29:41 AM »

Hmmm.  Guess I can be reclusive controlling dick?  Funny, I don't think I am ... .except the reclusive part.   Smiling (click to insert in post)

Paranoid:  30%

Schizoid:  33%

Schizotypal:  39%

Antisocial:  43%

Borderline:  32%

Histrionic:  11%

Narcissistic:  24%

Avoidant:  35%

Dependent:  31%

Obsessive-Compulsive:  20%

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« Reply #216 on: January 11, 2016, 09:33:33 PM »

Schizoid. Not a surprise... .

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« Reply #217 on: August 24, 2016, 12:18:36 AM »

Schizotypal    61%    
Antisocial        67%    
Avoidant       68%    

I got over 60% for 3, which is a bit of a worry.  Still living with my BPD wife, and moderately depressed according to another poll doesn't help, I guess.
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« Reply #218 on: August 25, 2016, 09:09:35 AM »

uummmm... .what are they trying to tell me?

Paranoid    73%   
Schizoid    60%
Schizotypal 60%   
Antisocial   63%
Borderline   68%
Histrionic   65%
Narcissistic   47%   
Avoidant   84%   
Dependent    75%   
Obsessive-Compulsive 42%
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« Reply #219 on: January 02, 2017, 10:48:31 AM »

Results
Paranoid   ||||||||||||||   51%   
Schizoid   ||||||||||||   42%   
Schizotypal   ||||||||||||||   58%
Antisocial   ||||||||||||||   51%   
Borderline   ||||||||||||||   53%   
Histrionic   ||||||||||||||||   61%   
Narcissistic   ||||||||||||||   57%   
Avoidant   ||||||||||||||   51%   
Dependent   ||||||||||||   50%   
Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||||||||   48%   

Top 3: Histrionic, Schizotypal, Narcissistic
Seems accurate. I care about how I look, I like validation and I am a bit uncomfortable at first when people try and get close.
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« Reply #220 on: January 09, 2017, 07:52:41 PM »

Well, apparently I am the messed up one. And here I was thinking that I was doing better and seeing the results of the Schemas test as proof that I am moving in the right direction. Maybe my fmaily should be on here complaining about ME.

Paranoid    ||||||||||||||    54%    50%
Schizoid    ||||||||||||    48%    40%
Schizotypal    ||||||||||||    42%    56%
Antisocial    ||||||||||||    41%    46%
Borderline    ||||||||||||||    58%    45%
Histrionic    ||||||||||||    42%    52%
Narcissistic    ||||||||||    36%    40%
Avoidant    ||||||||||||||||    62%    48%
Dependent    ||||||||||||||    51%    44%
Obsessive-Compulsive    ||||||||||||||    57%    45%

Time to go back to my isolation chamber, since it seems that all I do is screw up other people's lives. Should have known - BPD/NPD husband is right after all. I AM the f***ed up one.

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« Reply #221 on: January 09, 2017, 07:54:13 PM »

Interesting.  It appears as if the average scores have changed considerably, Since September of 2010.  I did the test rather quickly the first time I took it.  Wow, ended up with all categories in the 40's and 50's.  I took it again, with some extra thought, and ended up with the results below.

Paranoid    ||||||||||   38%   50%
Schizoid    ||||||||||   40%   40%
Schizotypal ||||||||||   33%   56%
Antisocial    ||||||||||||46%   46%
Borderline ||||||||||   35%   45%
Histrionic   ||||||||||   39%   52%
Narcissistic||||||||||||   42%   40%
Avoidant   ||||||||||   34%   48%
Dependent||||||||||   34%   44%
Obsessive-Compulsive||||||||||   40%   45%
Note:  Gray numbers to the right, indicate the average score of participants

I'm wondering if someone in California designed the test, .  The particular questions below from the test, appear to have been used to denote characteristics such as narcissism, if you answer the questions in a particular way.    Okay, I won't get political, but I could see there was a bit of skewing in some instances.  I'd better step away before I really start JADEing.
  • I am politically conservative
  • Human activity is causing climate change.
Thought Climate change?  Wow, California just made a law to regulate cow farts
  • A country should not care as much about foreigners as it's citizens.
  • Minorities who pose some kind of social threat should be monitored
  • Some cultures simply don't mix well
  • Immigration should be tightly controlled.
  • People shouldn't live in a country they don't want to entirely integrate into.
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« Reply #222 on: January 12, 2017, 09:02:30 AM »

I actually have pretty severe OCD, not OCPD, but there's some overlap.

Paranoid   ||||||||||||   49%   50%
Schizoid   ||||||||||||   49%   40%
Schizotypal   ||||||||||||   43%   56%
Antisocial   ||||||||||||   50%   46%
Borderline   ||||||||||||   46%   45%
Histrionic   ||||||||||||   50%   52%
Narcissistic   ||||||||||||   49%   40%
Avoidant   ||||||||||||   46%   48%
Dependent   ||||||||||||   47%   44%
Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||||||||||   59%   45%
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« Reply #223 on: August 05, 2017, 09:16:00 AM »

Highest score was Borderline, closely followed by Avoidant. I thought she was the ill person?
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« Reply #224 on: February 01, 2018, 12:29:04 PM »

68% Obsessive Compulsive. Whoa!
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« Reply #225 on: February 05, 2018, 10:00:19 AM »

I'm wondering if someone in California designed the test, .  The particular questions below from the test, appear to have been used to denote characteristics such as narcissism, if you answer the questions in a particular way.    Okay, I won't get political, but I could see there was a bit of skewing in some instances.  I'd better step away before I really start JADEing.
  • I am politically conservative
  • Human activity is causing climate change.
Thought Climate change?  Wow, California just made a law to regulate cow farts
  • A country should not care as much about foreigners as it's citizens.
  • Minorities who pose some kind of social threat should be monitored
  • Some cultures simply don't mix well
  • Immigration should be tightly controlled.
  • People shouldn't live in a country they don't want to entirely integrate into.

The social questions are something the site is surveying - but it is not part of the assessment.
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« Reply #226 on: February 10, 2018, 12:40:24 AM »

Obsessive-Compulsive   79%

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« Reply #227 on: August 14, 2018, 06:12:11 AM »

Paranoid          ||||||||||||||   51%   50%
Schizoid            ||||||||||||   44%   40%
Schizotypal   ||||||||||||||   56%   56%
Antisocial              ||||||||||   33%   46%
Borderline      ||||||||||||||||   65%   45%
Histrionic       ||||||||||||||||   65%   52%
Narcissistic   ||||||||||||||   53%   40%
Avoidant      ||||||||||||||||   66%   48%
Dependent   ||||||||||||||||   62%   44%
Obsessive-Compulsive||||||||||||||||   63%   45%

hmm not exactly a glowing endorsement
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« Reply #228 on: August 14, 2018, 06:38:50 AM »

That was pretty interesting

Paranoid   ||||||||||||   42%   50%
Schizoid   ||||||||||||   45%   40%
Schizotypal   ||||||   26%   56%
Antisocial   ||||||||||||   43%   46%
Borderline   ||||||||||||   41%   45%
Histrionic   ||||||||||   35%   52%
Narcissistic   ||||||||||   39%   40%
Avoidant   ||||||||||||   42%   48%
Dependent   ||||||||||   37%   44%
Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||||||||||||   61%   45%
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« Reply #229 on: August 14, 2018, 10:52:55 AM »

Hmm... .I’ll be interested to take this again when I’m feeling noticeably better about things, unless I begin to obsess about it in the meantime!

Paranoid   ||||||||||   39%   50%
Schizoid   ||||||||||||   48%   40%
Schizotypal ||||||   27%   56%
Antisocial   ||||||||||   39%   46%
Borderline   ||||||||||   35%   45%
Histrionic   ||||           19%   52%
Narcissistic||||||         24%   40%
Avoidant   ||||||||||   39%   48%
Dependent||||||||||   31%   44%
Obsessive-Compulsive||||||||||||||   52%   45%
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« Reply #230 on: November 12, 2018, 02:22:41 AM »

My result... .quite interesting


Paranoid   ||||||||||||||||   62%   
Schizoid           ||||||||||||   42%   
Schizotypal   ||||||||||||||||   63%
Antisocial   ||||||||||||   49%   
Borderline   ||||||||||||||||||   76%   
Histrionic   ||||||||||||||||||   80%
Narcissistic   ||||||||||||||||   66%   
Avoidant   ||||||||||||||||||   75%   
Dependent   ||||||||||||||||   67%
Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||   27%

And I was wondering if my ex-bf has BPD  I myself seems to have traits of personality disorders too.
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« Reply #231 on: November 19, 2018, 09:04:13 AM »

Paranoid   ||||||||||||   44%   50%
Schizoid   ||||||||||||||   55%   40%
Schizotypal   ||||||||||||||||   61%   56%
Antisocial   ||||||||||||||||   61%   46%
Borderline   ||||||||||   36%   45%
Histrionic   ||||||||||   38%   52%
Narcissistic   ||||||||||||   50%   40%
Avoidant   ||||||||||   37%   48%
Dependent   ||||||   28%   44%
Obsessive-Compulsive   ||||||||||   38%   45%

Antisocial and Schizotypal come up consistently for me. Interesting.
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