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Question: How did you score on this test
Blue - 139 (51.7%)
Green - 81 (30.1%)
Orange - 11 (4.1%)
Gold - 38 (14.1%)
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« Reply #30 on: October 20, 2010, 09:58:41 AM »

Green 12

Orange 10

Gold 7

Blue 7

It's not inconsistent with how I see myself, and much more complimentary than "impulsive loner", Laugh out loud (click to insert in post).
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« Reply #31 on: October 20, 2010, 10:02:47 AM »

I'm blue too... . 

The "Legend of Frustration" is spot on for how I am frustrated... .and how I frustrate.  xoxo
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« Reply #32 on: October 20, 2010, 01:07:30 PM »

LOL! It calls me blue but it's almost evenly divided.  I'm 12 blue, 11 gold, and 10 green - but only 3 orange.
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« Reply #33 on: October 20, 2010, 02:09:11 PM »

 Blue 16

Gold 9

Orange 6

Green 5
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« Reply #34 on: October 20, 2010, 03:57:44 PM »

Green 13, orange 10, blue 9, and gold 3... .Kinda evenly bunched there, which merely means there's THAT many more things that frustrate me!
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« Reply #35 on: October 20, 2010, 04:24:36 PM »

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« Reply #36 on: October 20, 2010, 05:46:04 PM »

Blue 14

Green 11

Gold 7

Orange 4
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« Reply #37 on: October 20, 2010, 05:55:39 PM »

green 12

blue 11

orange 7

gold 6


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« Reply #38 on: October 20, 2010, 05:58:20 PM »

14 Orange

11  Blue

11 Green

0 Gold


LoL... .ZERO gold... .

My myers-briggs personality type is ENFP- seems pretty consistent to the description of the color types.
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« Reply #39 on: October 20, 2010, 06:09:38 PM »

Green 12

Blue   11

Red     9

Gold    5

Green/Blue like my eyes.   Being cool (click to insert in post)

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« Reply #40 on: October 20, 2010, 06:11:18 PM »



Take the Test (20 questions)
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« Reply #41 on: October 20, 2010, 06:34:36 PM »

Straight out of a George Strait song: Am I blue? Yes Im blue.

13 Blue

11 Green

8 Orange

4 Gold

And the frustrations are all valid.

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« Reply #42 on: October 20, 2010, 06:37:14 PM »

12

Gr

   

11

Gl

   

10

Or

   

3

Bl

And it's funny you mention Myers-Briggs, because I'm between INTP and INTJ on that scale.
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« Reply #43 on: October 20, 2010, 07:28:42 PM »

I am mixed. Blue by only 1

Bl 12


Or  11


Gr  8


Gl  5

Reminds me of how using the Myers Briggs Test can help us see our & others' strengths & weaknesses & why we can rub each other up the wrong way, includinbg on the boards here, perish the thought  .

I think my husband is very gold, plus green. Interesting to compare. Can see the clash.

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« Reply #44 on: October 20, 2010, 07:45:05 PM »

Type: Gold

Gold 11

Blue 10

Green 9

Orange 6
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« Reply #45 on: October 20, 2010, 07:47:44 PM »

Gold 13

Blue 12

Green 7

Orange 4

This is very accurate of how I perceive myself.

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« Reply #46 on: October 20, 2010, 09:12:13 PM »

Green      11

Blue        10

Orange     9

Gold        7



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« Reply #47 on: October 20, 2010, 10:06:17 PM »


Skip, which is the orange and which is the gold in this pie?  I'm seeing an orange/yellow at 2% and a red at 30%.  So, is the red the orange or is the red the gold?  TIA
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« Reply #48 on: October 20, 2010, 11:59:27 PM »

Green

with red shoelaces.
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« Reply #49 on: October 21, 2010, 01:17:12 AM »

14

Bl

   

12

Gr

   

7

Gl

   

3

Or
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« Reply #50 on: October 21, 2010, 06:40:21 AM »

Primary blue, secondary green. Actually they're both close, one's 13 and the other is 12.  Orange is 6 and Gold is 5.
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« Reply #51 on: October 21, 2010, 09:02:01 AM »

Question: I'm overwhelmingly green - is there anything relating that to schizoid personality disorder?



Green


Curious, deep, independent, factual

complicated, Inventive, loner, clever,

egghead, fair, level headed, skeptical,

theoretical, expert, Non-conformist,

technical, scientific, distant, bookish

I took another personality test a while back that suggested I have covert schizoid tendencies, i.e. being overly independent, a loner, bookish, showing emotion as far as what I think other people expect from me... .The question that got me most on the quiz posted here was something about when you meet up with friends do you prefer a handshake or a hug -- there was no option to pick neither! I have an appointment tomorrow with my counselor, I'll have to remember to ask him about this. Interesting stuff!

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« Reply #52 on: October 21, 2010, 09:22:20 AM »

The question that got me most on the quiz posted here was something about when you meet up with friends do you prefer a handshake or a hug -- there was no option to pick neither!

The question that got me was: "In a romantic relationship I look for (a) a soul mate or (b) a potential spouse."

A) Not looking for a romantic relationship and don't see myself ever looking for that.

B) IMO, the term soul mate should be banned from being used, so I'm definitely not looking for whatever a "soul mate" is supposed to be.

C) I'm not looking for a potential spouse.  Been there, done that - no need to repeat.

Amazing how one little question can be so annoying -- Laugh out loud (click to insert in post).

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« Reply #53 on: October 21, 2010, 09:45:35 AM »

I liked the question:

Are you (a) analyzing this test or (b) going with your feelings?

There's a saying that is something along the lines of "first thought is your best thought" to refer to that first moment of fresh perception... .before judgement, personal interpretation, opinions, doubt... .all our hopes and fears take over.

I think we, as humans, pychoanalyze far too much lending us to be so full of pessimissm and judgement when we've been hurt the way we have.

I'm a blue... .is that part of my frustrating frustration?  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #54 on: October 21, 2010, 09:49:38 AM »

I think we, as humans, pychoanalyze far too much lending us to be so full of pessimissm and judgement when we've been hurt the way we have.

So very true, DG!

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« Reply #55 on: October 21, 2010, 12:52:48 PM »

I took it twice because there were a couple of questions I could go either way on.

I was GOLD, then Blue, then Green, then Orange on the first test.

Second Test was: BLUE-11

                        Gold-10

                        Green-10

                        Orange-5

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« Reply #56 on: October 21, 2010, 07:13:54 PM »

Green, with green and blue nearly equal.  Smiling (click to insert in post)

Green 14

Blue 13

Gold 6

Orange 3

B&W

P.S. DreamGirl, I laughed at the "are you analyzing this test" question, because of course, I was.  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #57 on: October 22, 2010, 05:11:17 AM »

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« Reply #58 on: October 22, 2010, 05:48:40 AM »

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« Reply #59 on: October 22, 2010, 04:17:27 PM »

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