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« on: March 03, 2013, 01:59:33 AM »

I just want to text him

I just want to drive up from my city to his, two hours, to knock on his door and tell him I need him

I'm drunk and I know it's bad so I'm posting here instead, but please, why won't he listen? Why can't he hear me? Why is this a bad idea again? I miss him so much. Crying in the bathroom of a bar my friends are all at. Why is he not mine anymore? I'm so devastated, how will I ever recover?
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« Reply #1 on: March 03, 2013, 02:13:59 AM »



Never good options... .  

Drunk dialing

Drunk texting

Drunk driving

Time for bed.   

Can't we revisit this tomorrow.  The timing will be better.
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« Reply #2 on: March 03, 2013, 02:14:05 AM »

That feeling really sucks. Wouldn't it be nice if they would call so you could cry together?

I miss my ex every day. I always feel like calling her. It's a horrible feeling when we realize they are no longer there for us.

There is a voice in your head that is telling you what you should do. You just have to be brave enough to listen. Some call it God, some call it your gut feeling or your higher conscience. Whatever it is, it is a part of you, listen to it. Love that voice because it is you.
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« Reply #3 on: March 03, 2013, 02:15:01 AM »

A big, big 

Good you posted here instead of sending him a text or even drive to see him!

Please stay where you are or go in your home. Try to stop drinking and sleep a bit.

Being drunk and relationships are a very slippery road!

You will recover, sandw0rm. It needs some time and it will get better. 

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« Reply #4 on: March 03, 2013, 03:39:12 AM »

That feeling really sucks. Wouldn't it be nice if they would call so you could cry together?

I miss my ex every day. I always feel like calling her. It's a horrible feeling when we realize they are no longer there for us.

There is a voice in your head that is telling you what you should do. You just have to be brave enough to listen. Some call it God, some call it your gut feeling or your higher conscience. Whatever it is, it is a part of you, listen to it. Love that voice because it is you.

I do however would like to point out the difference between missing an ex and missing someone with BPD. In regards of the topic, doing something drunk is never wise, neither getting drunk to forget the sorrow or become more talkative.

Stay strong sandworm Smiling (click to insert in post)
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