Also is anyone you would class as 'high maintenance' capable of having a healthy relationship?
Can you help me understand your line of questioning here trevjim? I’m a little confused.
I think the focus would be on "high conflict" rather than high maintenance - we contributed to the dynamic - high conflict takes two to engage not just one! Assuming she is high maintenance is assuming we play no role.
If these are the
Characteristics of Healthy Relationship what are your thoughts?
So, was your relationship healthy?A. Can you say what you like or admire about your partner?
B. Is your partner glad that you have other friends?
C. Is your partner happy about your accomplishments and ambitions?
D. Does your partner ask for and respect your opinions?
E. Does she/he really listen to you?
F. Can she/he talk about her/his feelings?
G. Does your partner have a good relationship with her/his family?
H. Does she/he have good friends?
I. Does she/he have interests besides you?
J. Does she/he take responsibility for her/his actions and not blame others for her/his failures?
K. Does your partner respect your right to make decisions that affect your own life?
L. Are you and your partner friends? Best friends?
Just a complete one-sided relationship.
Partly true paperlung! We played a role.