At the sudden end of the trainwreck with the exBPD when I was struggling to figure out what was happening, after she had moved a guy in with her behind my back and was engaged within weeks, this is what she said ' I am your friend, your best friend, I always will be". With friends like the exBPD who needs enemies?
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The only reason they want to be 'friends' is for themselves only, to see how much more agony from themselves they can unload on us, or to use as another punching bag when the current one starts getting holes in it. Honestly believing that they wish to be 'friends' for any other reasons than those and you are fooling yourself.