Hi Roses,
Welcome to BPD Family! I'm happy you found us. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother. What an amazing thing to get an answer to "what is wrong with her?" after all this time. I wonder if it gives you a sense of closure. Now you can take time to reflect on why she was the way she was. What issues did you see that bothered you the most? Do you have any children? Have you told them about her diagnosis? How did they react? I'm just full of questions on this early morning.
Here is a link that will introduce you to BPD and it's symptoms.
Video-What is Borderline Personality Disorder?We have many members on this board who will be able to relate to having a parent suffering from BPD. Here is a link that will direct you to the proper board.
[L5] Coping and Healing from a BPD Parent, Sibling, or Inlaw BoardKeep posting here! It will not only help you gain an understanding of your mother but will help you understand yourself and the issues you may need to address from having a BPD parent.
-crazed