The day has come...

[State85]

Well the day has come. The day my uBPDexgf said would come, the day she doesn’t give a damn anymore. For me, that day was about 3 months ago when I broke it off. But I guess my recent NC to her texts was too much for her. And as I write this, she is still texting me. Saying how she wasn’t worth anything to me when we were in a r/s, how I don’t care she is in a financial crisis, how I never took her around my family, and friends…and on, and on, and on.

But the “day” has come……that’s doubtful…if it was, the texting would stop.

Anybody else relate to this behavior?

[Perfidy]

Quit being so stingy. Give her the money! Kidding... .Do whatever you gotta do. Just wanted to say that times are tough and I got one of my ex's doing the same thing right now. She's from before the pwBPD but she's pulling a lot of guilt tripping on me like that. I told her she needed a long term solution and I didn't want to have her depending on me. She isn't my responsibility and I'm sure the same would apply to any of my ex's BPD or not.

[santa]

It's ridiculous, State. Mine texted me last night and I ignored it. Then, she texted me this morning and I ignored it. Then finally this afternoon, I responded with a short message and said that talking to her was a waste of time. Then it turned into like 3 hours of texting back and forth only to conclude with her telling me not to text her. Lol. She started it! Totally irrational.

[State85]

Yep, this turned into a bunch of senseless texting. Her once again blaming me for everything. And somehow justifying her abuse. At the end she says she just needs a friend... .

Whatever. I'm sure she'll be fine tonight with one of her boyfriends.

[Pearl55]

Don't waste your precious time with these psychos!