SHOULD I BUY HER A CELL PHONE

[Fanie]

Hi All

My uBPDw is chatting non-stop on her cell, even when we are with the 2 kids at home

I know that she is also talking every evening (especially in the bathtub (closed door)) to male "friends" which she hides from me  (she said she spoke to her female friends)

and I don't snoop on her cell ... .   but it hurts as hell ... .

She lost her cell yesterday !

Should I buy her a new one (she cant afford) ?    

Thanx again !

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[formflier]

Nope... .

[itgirl]

If my partner were emotionally cheating with other people, I would ask her if she thinks seeking an emotional connection outside the marriage is truly the best thing for long-term happiness.

But if someone wants to "cheat" they will find the means.  If you buy a new phone or not. 

[Fanie]

I had the same idea

(she could get one from one of her buddies anyway yeah... . maybe even got one already but hiding it)

aaagh

I bough one ... .

She was very happy and thanked me ... .

whatever it means ... .