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« on: September 27, 2014, 09:29:49 AM »

My ex asked if we could stay friends and I agreed - we are no longer close but we are distantly kind' (whatever that is :-D).  Anyway, we are Facebook friends too so I never post anything personal.   Anyway, does anybody else have this weird thing happen or have a theory as to what it means?   Whenever I am on and she comes on, she goes immediately off.   Same thing when I come online when she is - she immediately goes off.  Like I said, we get along just so fine so I don't get it.  Is she experiencing shame because she left me?  I sense things aren't going great with my replacement as she has tried to meet and has contacted me a few times.  Confusing... .
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« Reply #1 on: September 27, 2014, 09:37:07 AM »

Pretty much the same with me. Have stayed FB friends but Im looking for an excuse to stop it. We have a son together and I don't think she would send me any info about him if I wasn't on FB. Just waiting for her to meet someone else (if she hasn't already) so I can say I don't think its appropriate and that any communication should be done purely by email (which she hates)

Lots of weird things like you described. I also used to put the chat box up and watch her start a message then stop. She would do this quite a bit but I cant be bothered with that any more so haven't looked in weeks.
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