I did it

[coasterhusband]

The last few weeks have been a bit of a blur... .and an "unblurring" too. I filed for divorce, moved out, and am working on the process and proceedings.

Now if my soon-to-be-ex can engage a lawyer so we can move to close, I'll be all good

I'll write more later, but I have to thank everyone on this site for the year+ of support that has helped to bring me here. It's been a challenging few years, but I am seeing a clear path to recovery and positivity.

Life is good again, and I have some work to do on myself to make sure I keep it that way!

[Flora73]

Well done coaster husband!

A long road but you have done the work.

Enjoy life and the endless possibilities still to come!

[NorthLight]

Good for you , congratulations :D

I think each time I read a story about someone coming out of a BPD-rs and are actually surviving and being happy again, it makes me (and hopefully others) motivated and one step closer to become happy and over this emotional mess too

Keep your spirit up and good luck

[PhoenixBlack]

Great news Coaster! All the best and thanks for sharing - gives us hope.

[Mutt]

Congrats coasterhusband. Good to hear you're in good spirits.

Don't watch the clock; do what it does. Keep going. -Sam Levenson