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« on: November 18, 2014, 10:05:03 PM »
... .Was today, and I so survived it! No birthday card. No shout out on her Facebook. Nothing. I'm proud of myself. Just wanted to share that healing really is possible. Have a great evening.
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« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2014, 01:20:21 AM »
This was very encouraging to read!

My ex's bday just so happens to fall on Thanksgiving Day this year... .I'm trying to brace myself (although I will be sending a card)... .
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« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2014, 06:22:51 AM »
Hers was Oct 1st. I didnt say a fu*king word. Mine was Oct. 12, nothing from her. Win-win... .
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« Reply #3 on: November 19, 2014, 03:35:45 PM »
My exBPDgf dropped me on my head a week before my birthday this year. I recieved a card with some well wishes and a small present, then later that day a tex hi hope you have a great birthday  i think you should go out with your friends and have fun. Yea great thanks for your blessing  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post).
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« Reply #4 on: November 19, 2014, 03:59:44 PM »
Mine is this coming Monday and I don't expect/want to hear from her.   
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« Reply #5 on: November 19, 2014, 04:10:02 PM »
Also, she was gonna get that engagement ring on her birthday, October 1st as well. Fate is such a strange creature!... .LMFAO!
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« Reply #6 on: November 19, 2014, 04:14:26 PM »
Quote from: Deeno02 on November 19, 2014, 04:10:02 PM
Also, she was gonna get that engagement ring on her birthday, October 1st as well. Fate is such a strange creature!... .LMFAO!

Thank your lucky stars that didn't go down. 
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« Reply #7 on: November 19, 2014, 07:13:34 PM »
Quote from: Raybo48 on November 19, 2014, 03:59:44 PM
Mine is this coming Monday and I don't expect/want to hear from her.   

Happy Birthday!
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« Reply #8 on: November 19, 2014, 07:15:24 PM »
Quote from: neverloveagain on November 19, 2014, 03:35:45 PM
My exBPDgf dropped me on my head a week before my birthday this year. I recieved a card with some well wishes and a small present, then later that day a tex hi hope you have a great birthday  i think you should go out with your friends and have fun. Yea great thanks for your blessing  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post).

Sounds like something mine would text. Blessings, and I'm holding you in prayer, and all that holier than thou ... .
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« Reply #9 on: November 19, 2014, 07:16:06 PM »
Quote from: Deeno02 on November 19, 2014, 06:22:51 AM
Hers was Oct 1st. I didnt say a fu*king word. Mine was Oct. 12, nothing from her. Win-win... .

Love it! Happy Birthday!
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