I realise that she has an agenda. She is away for the weekend with my replacement so coming back early would mess up her plans but previously her default setting was to attack and blame me and if that didnt work go for the guilt trip.
this to me feels more like a change in her attitude towards me. I would say painted white but maybe ive become less significant so not as triggering.
It has me curious as I would like to put together a roaf map of their behaviour and key changes. I think it could be a useful tool for me and othrrs here.
Truth be known in my experience mental masturbation will do you only harm. Give it some time and you'll find out if there's anything to it.