Up & Down?

[Depression = 72% of members]

Our BPDso's can always be in flux.  Up and down whether it be hourly and/or daily.  Most of the time my uBPDbf goes about his life as he chooses.  Sometimes tells me what is going on, most of the time I figure out by accident.  Most days my BF goes to work, comes home for lunch, goes back and then is home around 5pm, works out, showers and then naps for about 1hr. while watching tv, then to bed at 11:00.  Rarely is there any conversation and when I try to start a conversation I get one word answers.

This past week I have my lady cycle, so that usually means restless sleeping, a migraine headache one full day, massive cramps the next, etc.  I usually don't feel very happy, smilely, etc.  His response to me is that because there is "2 sides of me" this week he is distant.  REALLY!  I get 2 sides of him ALL THE TIME, but the one week I feel like crap, it's my fault.  He doesn't want to give me support and understanding, fine, BUT blame me.  ARGH!

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Our BPDso's can always be in flux.  Up and down whether it be hourly and/or daily.  Most of the time my uBPDbf goes about his life as he chooses.  Sometimes tells me what is going on, most of the time I figure out by accident.  Most days my BF goes to work, comes home for lunch, goes back and then is home around 5pm, works out, showers and then naps for about 1hr. while watching tv, then to bed at 11:00.  Rarely is there any conversation and when I try to start a conversation I get one word answers.

This past week I have my lady cycle, so that usually means restless sleeping, a migraine headache one full day, massive cramps the next, etc.  I usually don't feel very happy, smilely, etc.  His response to me is that because there is "2 sides of me" this week he is distant.  REALLY!  I get 2 sides of him ALL THE TIME, but the one week I feel like crap, it's my fault.  He doesn't want to give me support and understanding, fine, BUT blame me.  ARGH!

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