To Stay or Go

[kt3220]

Hi Everyone

Last year I posted that I found out my H was cheating on me. He was seeing prostitutes. When he finally told me, it was all my fault. We have two sons ages 9 and 11. After 2 years of working on myself in therapy, I am finally ready to try and make the decision to stay or go. We went to a Marriage counselor last week, and boy was that hard. Of course, everything was my fault and I was just not the person he had met. Look I am not perfect, but I am a good kind person , and I am so tired of doing this to myself. I am confused as to whether the therapy will even work. I am not up for getting bashed in every session. I also, still let myself get lost in the thoughts that he is right, and I am so terrible to him. He gets mad because I have friends that I text and go to movies with. He says I never want to be with him. Well he cheated on me and I am supposed to just overlook that... .seriously.

I am rereading stop walking on eggshells. Any other suggestion or experience is welcome.

Thank you for your help

Tired of Hanging on

KT

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We can help.  I am glad you found us.

Are you still working with your individual T?  How many MC sessions have you had?

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Look to the right... .have you read the lessons? 

Before you can make the decision... .to stay or go... you need to get educated about what you face... and what the chances are for improvement.

you are in the right place... .we can help!