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« on: May 25, 2015, 08:37:57 PM »

   Hey, everyone~~

What's that kind of daydreaming that one egages in as a defense mechanism?  On the extreme end, one actually believes the scenarios, people, and things in it are *actually* happening or have happened, and I can't think of the name!  It's driving me nuts.

I've done this to a far lesser degree, and have been working on it in therapy.  I've come to realize it's due to the unfortunate circumstance of being raised and abused by a uBPD mother with u-histrionic traits and a badly enabling father.

But what's the name of this daydreaming?  Gah, I'm going nuts, I know it has a name! 
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« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2015, 09:04:36 PM »



Defense Mechanisms?
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« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2015, 09:14:16 PM »

Sorry?  If you tried posting a link it didn't work. 

I wanna say something like psycho-reactive daydreaming, but that's not it.
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« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2015, 05:56:27 PM »

Could it be maladaptive daydreaming? I just did a Google search for it, so that might not be it.

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« Reply #4 on: May 27, 2015, 05:27:01 AM »

Dissociation?
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« Reply #5 on: May 27, 2015, 08:05:03 AM »

Dissociation?

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« Reply #6 on: May 28, 2015, 10:47:42 AM »

MALADAPTIVE DAYDREAMING, YES!  THANK YOU!
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« Reply #7 on: May 29, 2015, 07:11:23 PM »

You're welcome BA. I had never heard of it before, but it strikes a bit of a chord with me.

I often escaped into fantasy as a child and still sometimes do.
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