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Hey, everyone~~
What's that kind of daydreaming that one egages in as a defense mechanism? On the extreme end, one actually believes the scenarios, people, and things in it are *actually* happening or have happened, and I can't think of the name! It's driving me nuts.
I've done this to a far lesser degree, and have been working on it in therapy. I've come to realize it's due to the unfortunate circumstance of being raised and abused by a uBPD mother with u-histrionic traits and a badly enabling father.
But what's the name of this daydreaming? Gah, I'm going nuts, I know it has a name!
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Defense Mechanisms?
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Sorry? If you tried posting a link it didn't work.
I wanna say something like psycho-reactive daydreaming, but that's not it.
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Could it be maladaptive daydreaming? I just did a Google search for it, so that might not be it.
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Dissociation?
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Quote from: seahorse on May 27, 2015, 05:27:01 AM
Dissociation?
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MALADAPTIVE DAYDREAMING, YES! THANK YOU!
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You're welcome BA. I had never heard of it before, but it strikes a bit of a chord with me.
I often escaped into fantasy as a child and still sometimes do.
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