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It's been 3 days of awful. Before that it was a week of on again off again awful. We're almost five years together. We're supposed to close on a house this month and get married this year. But everything is always my fault, everything I do is nit picked from the way I drive, to the way I drag my feet when I walk, to how I breathe at night, to how I answer the phone. I'm at my wits end.
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My two daughters are in town for the summer staying with us. She's been in a "mood" for Weeks now, but every time I try to address it, no matter how calm, nice, kid gloved I am, it's me coming down on her and treating her badly. It's the skewed perception of she hasn't done anything wrong or isn't treating anyone badly, it's the other way around in her book.
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