I think he just ignored my requests about him not meeting those women.
It has been a week since he left and I feel relieved to be honest. I think in times i will be able to sign the paper. Maybe a few months. Maybe a little longer. But I can't keep on playing this game he is playing and maintain my sanity.
My therapist said what we had was not a real marriage and I should consider the welfare of my child and mine. Which is to move on.
It is easier to keep my mind determined on this when he is not around.
i really don't know if I should keep hope in us or that it is time to let go. When he is not around I feel a bit at ease. He wanted me to let him cheat and wait for him. I cannot allow that even though I asked myself if I could do that. I shouldn't ... .Right?
First of all, I am sorry that you are in such a crappy situation. I found out about my wife's affair recently and it is awful.
His cheating is something that has happened numerous times, right?
I wonder if your willingness to take him back again and again has caused him to think that he can do it as much as he wants.
If there is anything that therapy and this forum has taught me, it is that my boundaries are important. I have to make and maintain my boundaries or I will be unhappy.
It sounds like you have tried to be fair and give him many chances to respect your most sacred boundaries. If he has not respected them many times in the past, is there something new that he is doing that makes you think he will respect them now?