I walked away she has another already

[Zigdog]

Hi all. I posted a day or so ago about my BPD girlfriend pushing me away. I finally got the strength to walk away. As I said before, every year or so she would find a new group to join and devote all her time to them. This new group was a Jaycee organization that did different events every month or so. Anyway, this new project had her out until 5 in the morning regularly. She always would tell me these things kept her from going into a depression so I let her do them so as not to end back up in the hospital and she would usually settle down after a month or so and be herself again. This time was different. She stayed and acted cold towards me when I'd ask what's going on. When she did talk she'd just yell I don't wanna talk about it. The last straw was her kids asked me why she was gone all time time. She got defensive and finally I told her I had had enough and that I was leaving and she just said good. I felt for months as if she wanted me to walk away so I could look like the bad guy who abandoned her. She told everyone how horrible I was but was the one out all night while I'm home with her kids. So two days later I find out from a friend that she's now seeing her friends husband. Now she calls me screaming because i told my sister she cheated and she is stalking my Facebook page. She has a new man now. What diff does it make what I put on my page? Everyone says she'll be back. I say stay away!