Lately, the BPD traits have been popping up more in my wife. With move going on, job hunt and all that... .my guess is that stress for than is causing it to show it's head more.
So, I've been posting about bad stuff... .more than usual.
Sunday, she woke up nice. We had a relaxed morning, went to church, family lunch and accomplished some things in the afternoon.
Towards the end of the day I realized that not one cross thing had been said... .I don't think I thought about tools all day.
Anyway, it does get better. There is a reward for the hard work of reading and applying the lessons.
FF