She bit me...

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

@Level7

I do not blame you for your choice. An exit strategy is most certainly needed. Do you plan on taking the children with you?

It really sucks to me that women can get away with this against men, and women automatically get looked at as the best parent for children to live with. My father raised my brother and me, but he didn't have custody until my mother decided she didn't want children anymore so she could "have her life back".

Do your best to document everything. I would even keep a written journal of things she says/does. You never know what might prove to be handy down the road.

[ColdEthyl]

@Level7

I do not blame you for your choice. An exit strategy is most certainly needed. Do you plan on taking the children with you?

It really sucks to me that women can get away with this against men, and women automatically get looked at as the best parent for children to live with. My father raised my brother and me, but he didn't have custody until my mother decided she didn't want children anymore so she could "have her life back".

Do your best to document everything. I would even keep a written journal of things she says/does. You never know what might prove to be handy down the road.

[Duck_Borders]

If you have a penis you need every piece of evidence you can against this person.  Family courts are heavily biased towards women (even though theoretically they're not supposed to be).  I've been bitten and I've seen the crazy eyes.  She told the cops I hit her, had me arrested and prosecuted for domestic violence, and moved to another country with my son.  I live in a warehouse now while I'm trying to fight for my rights as a Father. 

Get hidden camera's in your house, record everything, it sounds like this relationship is going downhill... .  collect every piece of evidence you can.  Angry emails and text messages are great.  Collect anything you can that will prove that she is not a stable person.  And do it fast, but don't be obvious about it.  They are crazy, but usually smart too.  Mine spotted my spy pen within 2 minutes and laughed at me, then punched me in the face when she knew it wasn't on... .

Good luck, you're gonna need it.  Saddle up for a really ___ty couple of years.