So here's an update. After that cancelation, she calls me and we talk about regular things and she brings up the relationship. Tells me she loves my family and loves my daughter , and also that she loves me as a person, I have a big heart bla bla blah and that what I am doing is too little too late. Tells me that she absolutely wants nothing to do with me and doesn't want to talk to me, it's been a week since then and I have cut all communication with her, my phone is under her name, she has a bunch of stuff at my house, like 75 percent of her clothes and shoes are here, she hasn't made an attempt to get them. I deleted all my social media but I logged in recently and by what she's posting it looks like this whole ordeal isn't phasing her. I can't believe it's gotten to this point . Over one month without her and looks like no way of winning her back.
There is only so much you can do. You can't force her to be with you no more than she can force you to be with her.
I may never understand how easily my ex threw me away and treated me like we never had a relationship. It confuses me to this day how someone who I thought loved me like no other couldn't care less if I dropped dead. The only thing you can understand is the behavior that results from BPD can not be rationalized.
What are you doing for yourself and your daughter today?
