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So I'm still really new to this community and I keep reading posts about this. I know it's and acronym for justify argue defend explain. Where can I get more info about this. And is there information about what to do instead? Thanks!
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Have you seen the thread?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=205038.0;all
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Quote from: Turkish on May 26, 2016, 12:47:14 AM
Have you seen the thread?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=205038.0;all
No that's my first time seeing that. Omg such great info and dialogue! I noticed one of the posters referenced SET GIVE and DEARMAN. Are those more acronyms?
Are these tools JADE SET GIVE DEARMAN developed from bpdfamily or is there a book resource website or video that gives even more in-depth information.
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Take a look through lesson 3 to the right of the board. I can direct link, but not until far later in the day, as I'm mobile (I just wanted you to know I'm not ignoring you
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This is a good summary.
Communication tools (SET, PUVAS, DEARMAN)
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Yes! Thanks so much... I'm gonna print this out and study.
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