Getting my stuff back Thursday...

[Depression = 72% of members]

Hi,

So I haven't had contact with the BPD girl I was seeing in over a month. She was the one who ended up things after 3 months (not in person but on Facebook).

Now she wants to come to my place and give me some stuff back this Thursday.

Obviously, I'm nervous about the whole thing. How should I act? Confident and happy? Neutral? Remind her that this is probably the last time that we speak?

I am so confused... .

[Americansplendor]

Hi,

So I haven't had contact with the BPD girl I was seeing in over a month. She was the one who ended up things after 3 months (not in person but on Facebook).

Now she wants to come to my place and give me some stuff back this Thursday.

Obviously, I'm nervous about the whole thing. How should I act? Confident and happy? Neutral? Remind her that this is probably the last time that we speak?

I am so confused... .

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[Henry II]

What you should do is tell her you have new stuff and to donate what she has to charity ! This is just a ploy to get into your place . She is playing a game with your head. She'll also look for signs of another women in your place. PLEASE, you don't need the stress !

[Americansplendor]

This is just a ploy to get into your place .

Yeah maybe, but also I have some of her belongings still. Who says she needs to get into my place? The doorway is enough.

[Americansplendor]

So I got my stuff back.

She buzzed, went downstair said hi, thank you and goodnight. She was with a friend.

Lasted 10 seconds.

I can finally start to breath a little.