She Can Go Burn in a Hellfire

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

I agree with you HoneyB33

If there wear an anti-relationship like antimatter these people would be it. They are the most complete opposite of healthy. You summed it up perfectly. We would have to die to make them satisfied so what's the point. We die and they end up alone? They are sabataging their own good. Destroying that which loves them.

Anyway I'm tired and these people are so strange, I can't say it hasn't been hell but it sure molded me into a better person.

[JerryRG]

I agree with you HoneyB33

If there wear an anti-relationship like antimatter these people would be it. They are the most complete opposite of healthy. You summed it up perfectly. We would have to die to make them satisfied so what's the point. We die and they end up alone? They are sabataging their own good. Destroying that which loves them.

Anyway I'm tired and these people are so strange, I can't say it hasn't been hell but it sure molded me into a better person.

[asphyx]

I agree with you HoneyB33

If there wear an anti-relationship like antimatter these people would be it. They are the most complete opposite of healthy. You summed it up perfectly. We would have to die to make them satisfied so what's the point.

Nothing will make them truly happy. They feel empty and broken to their core.

They will claim that X will make them happy. So you do X for them. Then Y becomes a new problem, and according to them it's always been a problem even though you've never heard them complain about it before. Then the cycle continues. It's so frustrating to deal with, you literally cannot win.

[Leonis]

She texted me tonight saying that she took a pregnancy test and it was positive. I decided not to contest it until further notice.

I am not feeling another argument tonight.

[JerryRG]

Reminds me of sitting down to play an imaginary game with an angry manipulative child, they use their innocence and charm to convince you to give it a try even though in the back of your mind you have an awful feeling this isn't going to turn out well.
Even if you have to let them win it's ok because we've been taught that we should allow others to win once in a while, after all life isn't always fair and this child is so hurt and in need of some reward.
You begin to listen to the rules as the child tries to teach us to play and as the game progresses each time we make any headway they make a new rule that sets us back to the beginning. Then the same rule doesn't apply to them because they invented the game. We watch them win and they laugh and make fun of how stupid we are and how easy we were beaten and don't give us any credit for even playing to start with.
They don't acknowledge we simply allowed them to win because we are giving and kind and fair and felt sorry for them.
The only thing that matters is that they win and we let them over and over again. They never give us a chance and never even say thank you. They just don't care.

The only way to win is to chose to lose until you've finally lost everything.

I'm suppose to be sleeping, I've played child games many times and my exgf is a player, not very good one at that. My son is sleeping beside me, that's all that matters to me. He will grow up to be a good, honest child and a good man one day.

[Fr4nz]

She texted me tonight saying that she took a pregnancy test and it was positive. I decided not to contest it until further notice.

I am not feeling another argument tonight.

Wow, that's a big news Leonis (if true)... .keep us posted.

[Leonis]

Wow, that's a big news Leonis (if true)... .keep us posted.

I don't trust anything she says until I see the ultrasounds myself. Even then, I will eventually demand a paternity test.