Really? Well in a sad way it's kind of comforting to know that it doesn't seem like a foreign behavior of there's then. A big red flag for me which I didn't see when I should've was that he told me about his fwb prior to meeting me, and he had said it was a girl from work, and they made a deal to be fwb til they found someone they wanna get to know and then they'd break their deal. Looking back i was concerned for this other girls feelings and he said he didn't care how she felt
now I think she probably was in the same place I was/am in, thinking she was getting to know a guy slowly and a new relationship was blossoming. There was never a deal between them I guarantee it! She probably feels all the same BS I do now as well. So many red flags and I am so disappointed in myself that I overlooked them
