Hi Anez,
I think that if you contact her, you should keep in mind she's only thinking about herself. You may be concerned for her well-being and happiness. But, she only cares about her happiness and is unconsciously concerned about her abandonment issues. This is something you should keep in mind for every word that is uttered by her. That's not to say the BPD people can't love or don't tell the truth, but their moments are fleeting and manipulation so numerous. It's kinda like playing minesweeper without the numbers.
Truth. Reading other's posts that say what I should already know deep down is so helpful!
