BPDexGF contacts me, possible recycle

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

3.5 months after breakup she emailed me for some info and asking to meet up for a catchup. Says she is moving away after being offered a job.  Timing of it is strange as I had posted pics of me looking happy with a new partner.  :)ecided to go NC and feels liberating.

[Replacement99]

3.5 months after breakup she emailed me for some info and asking to meet up for a catchup. Says she is moving away after being offered a job.  Timing of it is strange as I had posted pics of me looking happy with a new partner.  :)ecided to go NC and feels liberating.

[happendtome]

After 3,5 months since you and your ex broke up you are already in the relationship and posting happy pictures? Do you think you are healed?

[Replacement99]

After 3,5 months since you and your ex broke up you are already in the relationship and posting happy pictures? Do you think you are healed?

Yes im fine with things now.

[JQ]

Replacement ... .

Question for you ... .if you're wanting to be done with your EXpwBPD ... .why is she still able to contact you via email/text/calling/etc ... .

as far as her reaching out to you ... .she's trying to recycle you ... .trying to manipulate you into doing things you really shouldn't be doing ... .

J

[Replacement99]

Replacement ... .

Question for you ... .if you're wanting to be done with your EXpwBPD ... .why is she still able to contact you via email/text/calling/etc ... .

as far as her reaching out to you ... .she's trying to recycle you ... .trying to manipulate you into doing things you really shouldn't be doing ... .

J

Wanted to see if I got recycled or not.  I guess now I know.

[once removed]

Wanted to see if I got recycled or not. 

a recycle occurs when two willing participants rekindle a relationship.

shes moving away, so this seems out of the question. it sounds like she wants to reconnect on good terms before she does which is not uncommon in any relationship.

it sounds like you dont have any interest in doing that, so carry on

[Replacement99]

a recycle occurs when two willing participants rekindle a relationship.

shes moving away, so this seems out of the question. it sounds like she wants to reconnect on good terms before she does which is not uncommon in any relationship.

it sounds like you dont have any interest in doing that, so carry on

Nah there is likely no job, it's a ploy to try and meet up. Pathetic as usual, NC will be maintained.