Husband and I disagree on what's best for 35 yr old son with bpd

[Parents! Get help here!]

Hi!
This is my first post...Just today, out of exhausted desperation, frustration, hopelessness, etc, etc, I found my copy of "Stop walking on Eggshells" and saw there were Support groups online.  I started reading a post from another Mom with a similar situation as me and I teared up.

I'm too tired to write much tonight, but will definitely be back to explain my situation and hopefully garner some wisdom and advice.

Thanks!

[DoubleM]

Hi!
This is my first post...Just today, out of exhausted desperation, frustration, hopelessness, etc, etc, I found my copy of "Stop walking on Eggshells" and saw there were Support groups online.  I started reading a post from another Mom with a similar situation as me and I teared up.

I'm too tired to write much tonight, but will definitely be back to explain my situation and hopefully garner some wisdom and advice.

Thanks!

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Pook075]

I'm too tired to write much tonight, but will definitely be back to explain my situation and hopefully garner some wisdom and advice.

Hello and welcome to the family!  You're among friends here and I'm looking forward to hearing your story.  How long have you been married?  Does your 35 year old son still live at home?