Hello

[TxMomof5]

Hi! I'm new here. I don't even know where to start.
I'm 40. My husband is 46. We've been together almost 10 years. I've spent most of that just wondering what's wrong with me. And then I found Stop Walking on Eggshells. I finally feel that there is hope and I look forward to sharing with and helping others while also finding somewhere for help also.

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[Tattered Heart]

Welcome TxMom.  It sounds like you are coming in with an attitude of wanting to make things work. That's awesome! I hope you will find lots of help and support here. I have not yet read Stop Walking on Eggshells, but it seems to be the go-to book for many people here. To add to that there are many workshops on the right side of the page that have info about BPD, better communication, and self care.