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In more ways than one, wear a condom. Anyway, my ex gf often said 'you are trying to protect yourself' during a rage in MY home. To paraphrase morrissey 'i can smile about it now, but at the time it was terrible.' Dont let these children in adults clothing formulate opinions about you, they know nothing about you and even less about themselves.
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Quote from: jambley on July 01, 2017, 10:02:09 PM
In more ways than one, wear a condom. Anyway, my ex gf often said 'you are trying to protect yourself' during a rage in MY home. To paraphrase morrissey 'i can smile about it now, but at the time it was terrible.' Dont let these children in adults clothing formulate opinions about you, they know nothing about you and even less about themselves.
Hi jambley,
How are you 'wearing the condom' now? Could you expand on this?
Love and light x
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Of course. I don't need the expanding one's though, only a small one.
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Quote from: jambley on July 04, 2017, 05:44:28 PM
Of course. I don't need the expanding one's though, only a small one.
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Forgot to do a ROFLMAO
Like how you dodged the question though!
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