New here: We bought a house together and things have gotten worse.

[BlueMarble]

I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs with someone I think may have BPD but I dont know for sure. I suspected something was off in our first 6 months of dating but since we had our good times and she seemed to be a good person, I stayed. Now we bought a house together and things have gotten worse. My patience and tolerance are not the same as before and I dont know where to get help understanding this situation. I would appreciate some guidance.

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[heartandwhole]

Hi miadinellie,



Welcome to the community! Im sorry things have become difficult in your relationship. You are definitely not alone. Members here have been in similar situations and understand what you are going through.

What behaviors are causing the most trouble right now? Is there a lot of conflict in the relationship?

When you can, let us know what you are dealing with. We’re here to support you. Things can get better for you and your partner.

heartandwhole