I’m not the most action oriented person in this relationship. Every time I turn around, she is doing tasks and things for the move before I can think of them and then I get shouted at for not doing enough, for placing the burden on her, for being selfish and lazy. I can’t catch up.
When we take a trip my wife moves at a thousand miles a minute and ALWAYS get the same upbraiding the day before about how she did everything. Problem is she was done before I even finished my to do list.
Ah' yes... .the old' "I have to do EVERYTHING" line... .a true classic ,
Takes all the cream and sugar out of it doesn't it... .
I hate this, .even when I ignore, my face still stays red for a quite a spell after she slaps my face with that one (metaphorically).
And what to do about it... .just "ban" all travel with her, my u/BPDw... .I have considered it, oh' yes I have... .even started construction on a boundary built to suite, .but I never hold to it.
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