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blackmirror89

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One of my friend

« on: January 09, 2019, 12:04:20 AM »

I really need the advice to make the relationship right between her and me.
I can't find any reasonable answer to persuade her in the insane unreasonable anger.
What should I do?


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Re: One of my friend

« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2019, 01:44:24 AM »

Hi and welcome. Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

Can you give us some more information about the type of relationship you have and what sort of difficulties there are?

I hope to hear more from you soon so we can better help and guide you.


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Re: One of my friend

« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2019, 02:42:32 PM »

Hi blackmirror89,

I'd like to join Harri and welcome you to bpdfamily. Do you have an update for us.

Quote from: blackmirror89 on January 09, 2019, 12:04:20 AM

I can't find any reasonable answer to persuade her in the insane unreasonable anger.
What should I do?

I would suggest to give it 24 to 48 hours for her to return to baseline. What's the backstory?


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