What if she leaves me?

[CPTSDGuy]

What if she leaves me?

 I don’t know where to put this. I’m concerned that my girlfriend is going to leave me. I have various mental health issues. I’m not sure that my relationship with my girlfriend is healthy. But I think I would be devastated if she just left. I have heard of tales of people, especially men, who have just woken up in the morning and they’re borderline girlfriend is just gone gone gone. Has that happened to anybody and what did they do?

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hi CPTSDGuy, and

ive been reading some of your posts and it sounds like youre having a tough time.

can you tell us more about the status of your relationship? are the two of you still together? whats going on between the two of you right now?

[CPTSDGuy]

It’s still pretty much the same. I’ve actually gotten a little bit better. My mood has been up. I think it has to do with the weather. One day it was 70°, however then it went down and then up again. I think I have seasonal affective disorder. We’ve been very task oriented and haven’t been doing very many relationship things.