My family is falling appart

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OK..so you understand that HER parenting choices are destructive.

I get it that you feel many time you must go along with it, yet now that the relationship is in EX status I'm wondering if you do or should think differently about this.

Boundaries work both ways.  They keep people out of your business and it keeps you out of theirs.

I hate to have to type this, yet it seems obvious her parenting choices are her business and you are essentially along for the ride.  Am I correct on this?

That's got to hurt to see kids you care about being led down a path to doom.

The dynamic is that an entitled child is hard to play with, so they get more stuff, feel more entitled, they are harder to play with which ends up with them being very remote and self centered.   Uggg...I'm so sorry.

What choices do you have in this matter?

Best,

FF

[formflier]

OK..so you understand that HER parenting choices are destructive.

I get it that you feel many time you must go along with it, yet now that the relationship is in EX status I'm wondering if you do or should think differently about this.

Boundaries work both ways.  They keep people out of your business and it keeps you out of theirs.

I hate to have to type this, yet it seems obvious her parenting choices are her business and you are essentially along for the ride.  Am I correct on this?

That's got to hurt to see kids you care about being led down a path to doom.

The dynamic is that an entitled child is hard to play with, so they get more stuff, feel more entitled, they are harder to play with which ends up with them being very remote and self centered.   Uggg...I'm so sorry.

What choices do you have in this matter?

Best,

FF

[Harri]

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