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Lidia40
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« on: December 07, 2019, 08:38:25 PM »

Hi. This is my first post. I look forward to connecting with new people and getting a chance talk about what I hope through living with a mother that has BPD.
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« Reply #1 on: December 07, 2019, 09:39:09 PM »

Hi and Welcome

When you can, share more of your story with us.  I am sure there are at least some experiences and details others can relate to.  We all support each other here so feel free to jump in.

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« Reply #2 on: December 07, 2019, 10:14:55 PM »

Hi Lidia40  ,

And welcome to our support community.  Smiling (click to insert in post)

How are you doing living with your mother with BPD, and how can we support you?

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« Reply #3 on: December 08, 2019, 01:15:24 AM »

Hi, Lidia40. My mom has passed, but I’m pretty sure that she had BPD or something similar. She could become very unhinged.

This is a place where we talk about things like that. We support each other here. Living with a mother with BPD  isn’t easy, and that’s an understatement.

So, what’s going on between you and your mom?
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